Every time I see a woman’s bra or panties, my heart skips a beat. I think I am obsessed.
I still look around, trying to catch a glimpse of a lace bra strap or belt.
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It started when I was in school.
One day, while I was in the playground, a teacher’s robe blew up in the wind. I knew I shouldn’t have looked, but I couldn’t help but look at his pants.
Now I’m 42 and have tried wearing women’s underwear before, but I don’t mind.
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I think it’s actually seeing how they sit on a woman’s body that turns me on.
Same thing when I watch porn – I lose interest once the underwear comes off.
DEIDRE SAYS: Sexual fetishes are normal. For example, many men find it exciting to see their partner in sexy underwear.
My Fetish Worries support pack explains this in more detail.
But if you are concerned that it will affect your daily life, it may be a good idea to speak to a counselor.
My Counseling Support Pack will help you find someone.